Reviving Relations

Wounds are hard to make but even harder to heal. The momentary pain that a person experiences while the wound is made, is only a starting point. If you don't attend to that wound, as tiny as it may be, it will get infectious.

For physical wounds consulting a doctor, most of the time helps the infection to subside but for wounds created in the heart, it takes more than that to heal.

Several times wounds created in our hearts are much deeper than a person could ever endure in their lifetime. Trying to live with that deep pain, in vain, leads to something quite unintended like distance.

It starts small and probably can extend until the end of the world. Several times, we tend to ignore it, stating that, as times change priorities also change. We deny ourselves the pleasure of being truthful to ourselves and blame others for creating such distances. What most of us fail to realise at that time is that it may be created by us, knowingly or unknowingly.

It is a universally accepted fact that time can change things and people. But if you put some effort into it you can always change it into a good change.

WHY SHOULD I?

Then another problem pops into our head " why should I", a  question that is responsible for most of the wars. We answer this question only to suffice our 'momentary' ego complexes.But when we take that path, what we forget is that, it will be only for that moment that we feel victorious and for the rest of our lives we feel ashamed of ourselves for making that choice.

 Always take the first step to mend your relationship even if that means that you're agreeing that the other person is right. Because it's better to tie those loose threads now than to fall down by tripping on them.