little big diaries

little big diaries: Creating a Niche : For every person on this Earth ,there exists a place, where we come to when we are exhausted by life's tantrums.Somewhere we can get cos...

little big diaries: Choices :  Somethings are meant to happen; they don't occur just out of the blue, they happen because they are meant to. But we, human beings, a r...

 Somethings are meant to happen; they don't occur just out of the blue, they happen because they are meant to. But we, human beings, a race who abuse their own species for 'fun', never accept it. We always go back and think if what that lead up to that particular event had never occurred, we think that maybe then the unthinkable, the 'unspeakable'  could never have happened; that we would never have suffered any loss. But it did; it did happen and we have lost it or that person to the world or to death. So then what is the meaning of thinking about how could have we possibly prevented that situation? What we can do is just simply sit and watch the show or accept it and go through with phases that life offer as a 'bonus' to us. It's our choice. It is and always has been our choice.

  Sometimes life is just wonderful. With all its hues and phases, life is actually really enjoyable. But it is a sad reality that all of the colours of this world are not equally distributed. Life may be fair to us, at least once in a blue moon. But the world, nope. Sometimes we feel that the world is fair to us, but that is just an illusion,a veil that kind, generous people hide behind as they too have an infamous side that they wouldn't want the others to see. But that veil is just  so beautiful even if it so thin and penetrating. It is actually really good to create such a veil for yourself 'cause what good is it to let all of you, out into this gratitude less, this unsatisfying pit of sins called the world. I love my life regardless of its shortcomings, of the abuses that I honour it with and that is why we should love and trust people too, regardless of the fact that they are hiding behind an unseen veil.

                                   A TEAR AND A SMILE     I would not exchange the sorrows of my heart    For the joys of the multitude.    And I would not have the tears that sadness makes   To flow from my every part turn into laughter.   I would that my life remain a tear and a smile.   A tear to purify my heart and give me understanding   Of life's secrets and hidden things.   A smile to draw me nigh to the sons of my kind and   To be a symbol of my glorification of the gods.    A tear to unite me with those of broken heart;    A smile to be a sign of my joy in existence.   I would rather that I died in yearning and longing than that I live Weary and    despairing.   I want the hunger for love and beauty to be in the  Depths of my spirit, for I, have seen those who a...

little big diaries: Learning to let go : Pain is what brings the most out of you. When you are in pain you become yourself, we accept ourselves even when we don't want to do so....

Pain is what brings the most out of you. When you are in pain you become yourself, we accept ourselves even when we don't want to do so. It makes us grateful for what we have and for what we can. I  have seen many people bearing the pain even when it becomes unbearable[including me]. Crying out for help when in pain doesn't mean that you are weak. It means that you are strong enough to express yourself without caring about people being judgemental of you. Many times, when people face different phases of depression, they are reluctant to get help for themselves even when they are on the verge of suicide. Accepting your weaknesses is as important as knowing your strengths. It doesn't make you any less of a man or a woman. We realize most of our insecurities and inferior complexes when we are troubled mentally or physically. But accepting that and letting go of your ego is what a truly successful person would do. Add caption It is easier said than done ,to let go of things.But...